What’s Your Story?

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This week I was thrilled to publish two new pieces. I got to delve into the past, and tell the stories I have turned over and over in my head for decades. Really fun and freeing.

The first was a piece published in a really cool publication called Role Reboot. It’s about the bumpy, intense, neverending journey toward body acceptance. As I’ve gotten older, I feel like I’ve gotten a bit closer to accepting that no matter what I do or want, I will never be skinny. But I can choose to be healthy, and happy. So simple, but hard to get. Somehow, having babies, nursing them, and just getting older has helped me accept this truth, and love my body. Here’s my piece: At 37, I’ve Finally Made Peace With My Body.

The second piece was written for xoJane. In the ’90’s I was a huge Sassy Magazine fan. It was my first magazine subscription. Michael Stipe, Courtney & Kurt, Johnny & Winona—Sassy was for misfits. And I certainly was one. xoJane is a site founded by the former editor of Sassy, so it was totally amazing to be published there, a teenage dream come true. And fitting, too, because I wrote a piece for them about when I was in high school and was sent to the principal’s office for not wearing a bra. Yes, that really happened. Here’s the story.


I have been writing my stories (mostly in the form of poems) for years, but as I expand, and dig deeper, I see just how many stories are in me. And not just in me—in everyone. That’s the thing. We all have our stories. Harrowing ones, courageous ones, beautiful ones, heartbreaking ones. I know it’s cliché to say, but it’s true. So, if you are out there wondering if you should write, if your story matters, if you have anything say, the answer is YES. You do. Just try. Just write.


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1 thought on “What’s Your Story?

  1. Janine Fowler

    Thanks for this! I need to write more. I’ve wanted to write for a living since I was a kid. I’ve made it happen, in some ways, in spurts, but I could do more.

    Found your blog via your Huff Post piece “Why I Nurse My 2 Year Old.” My little nursling will be two this month and I nursed my older boy daily until he was about 3. Big Brother is 4 now and still nurses a bit here and there, though he seems to be outgrowing it as he complains there isn’t enough milk there. I think he is just forgetting how to suckle properly. 🙂 Thanks for sharing your story. I loved the descriptions of his soft, buttery body. Mine calls it “milkies” too. And being able to lie in just a bit longer after waking up is a perk too!



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